Restorative Community
At Camp Kalsman, we strive to create an environment where every camper and staff can be their true and best selves. Even in our sacred community, mistakes and conflicts occur and everyone has the ability to grow and learn. Kalsman is taking steps this summer to become a restorative community. A restorative community aligns with our Jewish values because it is is rooted in the desire to create a more compassionate, inclusive, and accountable society. A restorative community embodies that ideas of t’shuvah or repair when responding to conflict because it works to repair the harm and promote mutual understanding. The goal is not only to respond more humanely to wrongdoing but also to proactively nurture a culture where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.
Restorative communities:
- See relationships as the key to meaningful community
- Center, model, and make decisions rooted in their core values
- Have clear and clearly articulated expectations for all community members and roles AND take time to develop/teach skills needed to meet expectations
- Build new structures and systems that center youth voice, slow down decision-making process, create time and space
- Prioritize time for meaningful connection using regular circle practice and one on one conversations
- Are not afraid of conflict and see conflict as an opportunity to strengthen relationships, develop skills, and meet needs
The first step to establishing a restorative community is to establish a baseline through community and relationship building. In order to start every day from a place of connection, we added a morning Mifgash, or meeting, to the day to build community based in values and will start the summer with an orientation to express expectations and make sure each camper knows all the resources on camp.